You Create a Timeline That Works for Your Family
One of the biggest misconceptions about weddings is that they have to follow a rigid structure. They don't. At Tree Top Escape, you have the freedom to shape the day around your children — not the other way around. You choose your ceremony time: mid-morning works beautifully for younger children, early afternoon might suit older ones. You're not locked into tradition. You decide when everyone eats — an earlier meal for little ones, a relaxed grazing table, a celebratory lunch instead of a late-night dinner. It's completely your call, built around nap times, energy levels, and what feels right for your family. When the timeline fits your children, the whole day feels calmer — and that calm ripples through everything.
Eloping? You're Not Doing It Alone
Even intimate weddings and elopements at Tree Top Escape can include children — and you don't have to juggle everything yourselves. Your wedding coordinator is there to be an extra pair of hands. During the ceremony, they can help little ones feel settled, gently guide them into position if they're part of the ceremony, and step in discreetly if someone needs a distraction. If you'd love a short window of just the two of you for portraits among the trees, we can also recommend a trusted local nanny. That way, your children are nearby and cared for — and you get some time to soak it all in together. It's about support, not stress.
The Whole Day Can Be Relaxed
When children are present, something wonderful happens — the atmosphere softens. And at Tree Top Escape, our natural woodland setting naturally encourages it. The day feels less formal, more heartfelt and more present. From a laid-back ceremony surrounded by nature (and maybe a few giggles), to relaxed drinks afterwards while children explore the grounds, family weddings here have a warmth that's hard to replicate. There's permission to let go of perfection — and that's often when the magic happens.
They Can Be as Involved as They Want to Be
Children don't have to just attend your wedding — they can be a genuine part of it. Some love the spotlight: ring bearers, flower girls, walking you down the aisle, reading a short poem, or handing over the rings. Others prefer to watch quietly from the front row — and that's just as perfect. There's no pressure. They can participate in a way that suits their personality. Often, giving them a role (however small) helps them feel proud, included, and connected to the moment. And those memories? They stay with them. If you're thinking about a micro wedding or a small, intimate celebration, having a handful of guests means every child present truly feels seen and included — not lost in a crowd.
Alpaca Feeding: The Unexpected Highlight
One of the absolute favourites for couples marrying at Tree Top Escape? Alpaca feeding after the ceremony. It gives children something tangible to look forward to — especially helpful if they're not quite sure what a "wedding ceremony" involves. It also creates natural excitement and beautifully candid photographs: while they're busy feeding alpacas, your photographer captures some of the most authentic, joy-filled images of the entire day. It's relaxed, playful, and wonderfully grounding after the emotion of the ceremony — and it's something guests of all ages remember. Find out more about our alpacas at Tree Top Escape.
What the Day Feels Like
When you get married with children present at Tree Top Escape, it doesn't feel chaotic. It feels like family. There might be an unexpected comment during your vows, a tiny hand reaching for yours mid-ceremony, or even a last-minute change of plan — but those are the moments you'll remember most. It feels real, warm and joyful. It feels like the beginning of something — not just as a couple, but as a family.
If you're planning to marry with children by your side, know this: it doesn't have to be stressful or complicated. With flexibility, gentle support, and a relaxed woodland setting at Tree Top Escape, it can be one of the most meaningful and beautiful ways to begin your next chapter. Because when children are part of your love story, it makes perfect sense they're part of your wedding day too.
Ready to start planning? Explore our venue or get in touch to check availability for your perfect date — we'd love to hear about your family.
